Why Your Beneficiary Designations Matter More Than Your Will

May 12, 2026
Suzanne Neville
Attorney Suzanne Neville and Paralegal Terri Dolecki reviewing documents.

When most people think about estate planning, they think about wills and trusts. And that makes sense. Your will, and your trust if you have one, is often the centerpiece of an estate plan. But there’s something that surprises a lot of people when they sit down with me for the first time: your will and trust may have very little say over where a significant portion of your assets actually end up.

The reason comes down to beneficiary designations, and understanding how they work could be one of the most important things you do for your family.

What Are Beneficiary Designations?

A beneficiary designation is a direct instruction attached to a specific financial account or policy. It tells the institution holding that account who should receive the funds when you pass away.

The accounts most commonly governed by beneficiary designations include:

  • Life insurance policies
  • Retirement accounts (401(k)s, IRAs, 403(b)s)
  • Annuities
  • Pensions
  • Payable-on-death (POD) bank accounts
  • Transfer-on-death (TOD) brokerage accounts

These accounts pass directly to whoever is named as beneficiary, completely outside of the probate process, and completely outside of the instructions in your will.

Why This Creates Problems

The most common issue I see is outdated designations. Life changes quickly. People get married, divorced, have children, lose loved ones, and their financial accounts don’t always get updated to reflect those changes.

I’ve seen situations where an ex-spouse was still named as a beneficiary on a retirement account years after a divorce was finalized. I’ve seen accounts where a parent was named as the sole beneficiary, but that parent had already passed away, leaving no clear path for the funds. And I’ve seen people who assumed their will would take care of everything, only for their family to discover that the bulk of their estate was going to pass according to designations made decades earlier.

In each of these cases, the will and trust were perfectly drafted, but they couldn’t override the beneficiary designation.

What Happens When There’s a Conflict?

The short answer: the beneficiary designation wins. If your will or trust say your assets should be divided equally among your three children, but your IRA names only one of them, that IRA goes to the child named, regardless of your intentions.

This isn’t a legal loophole, it’s simply how the law and these accounts are structured. Beneficiary designations are contracts between you and the financial institution, and they operate independently of your estate plan.

What You Should Do

The good news is that this is entirely fixable with a little attention. Here’s where to start:

  • Pull together a list of all your retirement accounts, insurance policies, bank accounts and investment accounts.
  • Contact each institution to find out who is currently named as primary and contingent beneficiary.
  • Review whether those designations still reflect your wishes and your current family situation.
  • Update any designations that are outdated, missing, or no longer appropriate.

It’s also worth making sure you have a contingent beneficiary named on each account. If your primary beneficiary passes away before you and there’s no contingent named, those funds could end up going through probate after all, which is exactly what beneficiary designations are meant to avoid. 

If you have a trust, consider naming your trustee on behalf of your trust as the beneficiary on your accounts.

How This Fits Into Your Broader Estate Plan

Beneficiary designations don’t exist in a vacuum. They should work alongside your will, your trust (if you have one), and your overall plan, not against them. When all of those pieces are coordinated, your estate plan does what it’s supposed to do: get the right assets to the right people, with as little stress and delay as possible for the people you love.

If you haven’t reviewed your beneficiary designations recently, or if you’re not sure how they fit into your current estate plan, I’d encourage you to take a closer look. It’s one of those things that’s easy to put off, and genuinely important not to.

Ready to Take a Closer Look?

If you have questions about your beneficiary designations or want to make sure your estate plan is working the way you intend, we’d love to help. Reach out to Franklin & Frankel to schedule a consultation — we’d love to walk through it with you.